[elemenowpee]

Now the delivery man came after 2 weeks and put a so-called "declaration of the recipient for delivery of a shipment" in my wife's hand

Toss It In the trash.

The carrier driver has no right to get Involved with the delivery of your goods, nor are you obligated to attend to his ridiculous request. If he has an Issue with It, he can deal with his employer.

agreed. throw it out and ignore it