[mothered]

I love the intention behind them but I hate not knowing what is going to happen

If you love the Intention, the surprise should be a good one regardless of what happens, yes?

[mainglobe12]

I love the intention behind them but I hate not knowing what is going to happen

If you love the Intention, the surprise should be a good one regardless of what happens, yes?

This probably doesn't make a lot of sense but, the reason why I like surprises is that someone cares enough about me to spend their time doing something to celebrate me. On the other hand, being surprised is not something I enjoy because I don't like being caught off guard since I need to know what is going to happen to fully feel comfortable.

However, I am very grateful when someone has these kinds of gestures with me because I know all the effort behind them.

[mothered]

This probably doesn't make a lot of sense but, the reason why I like surprises is that someone cares enough about me to spend their time doing something to celebrate me.

It makes perfect sense - very well said.

On the other hand, being surprised is not something I enjoy because I don't like being caught off guard since I need to know what is going to happen to fully feel comfortable.

Understood.

You never know whether the unexpected will be to your liking.

[Oni]

Generally I am pretty perceptive and I prefer to know things in advance. However, one time a member sent me a box full of dildoes for my birthday... You never know what will happen in life.

[mothered]

However, one time a member sent me a box full of dildoes for my birthday...

Hilarious.

Did you at least keep the batteries for the TV remote control?

[Jiggly]

Generally I am pretty perceptive and I prefer to know things in advance. However, one time a member sent me a box full of dildoes for my birthday... You never know what will happen in life.

That was hilarious. And it wasn't the only interesting gift iirc.

However, one time a member sent me a box full of dildoes for my birthday...

Hilarious.

Did you at least keep the batteries for the TV remote control?

I think it was a box of 20 or so mini dildos. Imagine leaving a trail of those around your apartment for a roomate to find xD


I don't think I've ever been part of a surprise party. I've only ever seen this is in movies and on tv.

[Oni]

Generally I am pretty perceptive and I prefer to know things in advance. However, one time a member sent me a box full of dildoes for my birthday... You never know what will happen in life.

That was hilarious. And it wasn't the only interesting gift iirc.

However, one time a member sent me a box full of dildoes for my birthday...

Hilarious.

Did you at least keep the batteries for the TV remote control?

I think it was a box of 20 or so mini dildos. Imagine leaving a trail of those around your apartment for a roomate to find xD


I don't think I've ever been part of a surprise party. I've only ever seen this is in movies and on tv.

You met my roommates, and if you ask them... they will recall being pelted with them on occasion.

@jones1999 also sent me a really nice switchblade that was later confiscated by campus security.

[Jiggly]

Generally I am pretty perceptive and I prefer to know things in advance. However, one time a member sent me a box full of dildoes for my birthday... You never know what will happen in life.

That was hilarious. And it wasn't the only interesting gift iirc.

Hilarious.

Did you at least keep the batteries for the TV remote control?

I think it was a box of 20 or so mini dildos. Imagine leaving a trail of those around your apartment for a roomate to find xD


I don't think I've ever been part of a surprise party. I've only ever seen this is in movies and on tv.

You met my roommates, and if you ask them... they will recall being pelted with them on occasion.

@jones1999 also sent me a really nice switchblade that was later confiscated by campus security.

Didn't you manage to adhere them to people's doors too?

That was a shame. It was a lovely gift.

[jimm.kenobi]

No, I freaking hate being surprised. Ugh, it is the worst

[parpscold]

I like attending surprise parties but dislike throwing them. Too much trouble.