[Riminovz]

Usually the courier comes to the address and it can happen that it is a different person than the courier and then the courier comes on another visit.

damn really ive never heard of this happening. any way to deal with it or is it nothing to worry about

It does not happen all of the time but you will find several people here sharing such examples.
If you want a refund you need to stick to your guns but if for whatever reason you want to back out of the SE, you can of course give a BS excuse of how the package was found and then the investigation will be closed with the courier.

feel like drivers in the uk dont have time for that so i doubt it would happen also it does seem unprofessional