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and the reason the fake name matters is..?
because of possible fraud right?

Correct, change of name rarely happens. Another address Is very common.

If you leave the name as Is and only alter the shipping address, there's no cause for concern. For legit reasons (and SEing of course), I always change the delivery address due to not being available at home to accept the package. For this very reason, the carrier cannot deem an alternative delivery point as suspicious. You have every right to change and specify precisely where you'd prefer your packages delivered.