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Question about a girl. - dopest - 03-26-2014
I know I might seem a bit lame coming to an online community for advice about a girl, but I don't have many people to talk to in person about such matters.
This might be a relatively long read, and I apologize.
Back in elementary school, there was this girl that all of my friends and I had this huge crush on, and well it was elementary school so nobody ever dated anyone. She started getting home schooled in the second grade, and I moved from that area 2 years later into more of a ghetto. I never saw anyone from that area again. I lived in this new area for about 3 or 4 years and nothing really happend relating to where I'm getting, so fast forward.. I now live in a preppy area and moved here maybe 4 years ago? Well, the other day I was sitting at Kroger waiting for my brother to get done checking out, and I met eyes with one of the workers. She was insanely beautiful. I looked over two other times to see she was still looking at me, so I pulled out my phone because I started blushing pretty bad.
Well, I ended up finding the girl I use to know on Facebook, and found out she was the worker and she had recognized me before. Her and I didn't recognize each other at the time, but I was with my ex and she was with her friends and we all ran into each other at Walmart and conversed expect for her and I.
And so I just found out that we keep running into each other, I think it's crazy.
Well anyway, she has great morals, hasn't done a thing with other guys, she's amazing looking, she's just flawless. I've never gone rollerblading so she's wanting me to go with her, and I'm trying to get her to go to the movies and dinner with me sometime and she said it sounds fun.
I just have a problem eating away at me, a year ago I lost my virginity to a girl I wish I would've never dealt with that won't ever leave me alone. I was raised to believe that I should be with another virgin but I fucked that all up..
I told her, and she is completely understanding.
Honestly, I'm not sure what I should do.. Should I try and date her? Or should I let a guy that's better for her come in.
Sorry this thread is everywhere, my mind is just scattered, I don't know what to do, I've never felt this way before.
Where I'm getting is what should I do, try and date her, or let a better guy go for her.
RE: Question about a girl. - Jiggly - 03-26-2014
Date her. No need to worry too much about that. It's life. Out of all of my friends, not a single couple are both virgins/have lost their virginity to only each other. I'm not sure how old you are and if that would make a difference. However, you are not a lesser man. You clearly have shown that you regret what you did anyway. Go for her. You'll regret it later if you don't I'll bet!
Good luck!
RE: Question about a girl. - dopest - 03-26-2014
(03-26-2014, 02:01 AM)Jiggly Wrote: Date her. No need to worry too much about that. It's life. Out of all of my friends, not a single couple are both virgins/have lost their virginity to only each other. I'm not sure how old you are and if that would make a difference. However, you are not a lesser man. You clearly have shown that you regret what you did anyway. Go for her. You'll regret it later if you don't I'll bet!Thanks a lot!
I really appreciate your input!
It's really nice that she actually accepts it, she said herself that she knows that people make mistakes. It just disgusts me on how I didn't feel the same way when other people were in my shoes. As people say, I suppose everything happens for a reason.
RE: Question about a girl. - Feat - 03-26-2014
Should I try and date her? - Bro, go for it. She seems like a rather understanding and great person, don't waste a perfect opportunity that if you don't take you might regret. Trust me when I say you'd want to take it. And it's rollerblading, it's one of the best type of dates to go on!
RE: Question about a girl. - Nyx - 03-26-2014
You seem like a really nice guy, and honestly, I'd say take it a shot. Better to try and get shot down than to regret it later on. Then again, I'm 13, so you probably take my post with a grain of salt and you should probably wait for some other older and more mature members to arrive.
RE: Question about a girl. - dopest - 03-26-2014
(03-26-2014, 02:08 AM)Feat Wrote: Should I try and date her? - Bro, go for it. She seems like a rather understanding and great person, don't waste a perfect opportunity that if you don't take you might regret. Trust me when I say you'd want to take it. And it's rollerblading, it's one of the best type of dates to go on!Thanks bro, I appreciate it.
And honestly man, I told her I was gonna fall over so much lmao, as long as I'm with her I don't really care<3
Is rollerblading really that fun though?
(03-26-2014, 02:08 AM)Atmosphere Wrote: You seem like a really nice guy, and honestly, I'd say take it a shot. Better to try and get shot down than to regret it later on. Then again, I'm 13, so you probably take my post with a grain of salt and you should probably wait for some other older and more mature members to arrive.
Thank you, I appreciate that, you're nice as well!
And never, I respect everyone's thoughts and opinions, I don't let age deter my thoughts on others or their opinions. If anyone doesn't listen to you because of your age, they are fools, don't mind them.
I'm thinking I'm gonna try and hang out with her over spring break a lot and try and ask her out.
I appreciate all of your inputs, you're all great members!
Thank you so much.
RE: Question about a girl. - Feat - 03-26-2014
(03-26-2014, 02:12 AM)VPN Wrote: Thanks bro, I appreciate it.
And honestly man, I told her I was gonna fall over so much lmao, as long as I'm with her I don't really care<3
Is rollerblading really that fun though?
It makes for quite the great laugh when you're both over there tripping. Trust me mate, it'll give you both quite the laugh for the first 10 or so minutes. After that, you should try and show off a bit and then "fall" down just so you make yourself look stupid. You know, the cliche stuff.
That's just my opinion on it, but it's REALLLLLLY fun. Ice-skating is actually really nice as well! But back to the topic, you shouldn't go off and skate on your own, just try and make it really fun for the both of you.
RE: Question about a girl. - w00t - 03-26-2014
Your past is your past. Keep it there.
RE: Question about a girl. - Mom - 03-26-2014
(03-26-2014, 02:37 AM)w00t Wrote: Your past is your past. Keep it there.
Well sometimes it'll bite you in the ass anyways.
That's why "Ass" rhymes with "Past".
Good luck, OP. Just don't trip about too much.
RE: Question about a girl. - dopest - 03-26-2014
(03-26-2014, 02:37 AM)w00t Wrote: Your past is your past. Keep it there.I thought about that, but when someone did that to me, it was horrendous. I wouldn't wanna put anyone through that. Not to seem, "lame" at all but that's something I can't do to someone I want to be with.