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Two Loves - Capture - 01-02-2014
Ok so Ive been dating my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years but im in love with my girlfriend and my best friend (Girl). My girlfriend will be moving 2 hours away in a couple of months. Im a sex addict and I'm not sure what to do. I dont want to cheat with my best friend and my plans are to move after 2 years and go to UF with my girlfriend. I dont know what to do.
RE: Two Loves - Zurchi - 01-02-2014
If you don't think you can be faithful, you should probably end things with her.
It will be better in the end.
RE: Two Loves - Capture - 01-02-2014
(01-02-2014, 07:15 AM)Zurchi Wrote: If you don't think you can be faithful, you should probably end things with her.Im a "what if" type of guy so what if in the end im faithful. Ive never cheated on a girl unless my mind thinking of other girls is cheating. The past month while having sex with my girlfriend i thought of my best friend.
It will be better in the end.
RE: Two Loves - Zurchi - 01-02-2014
(01-02-2014, 07:19 AM)Capture Wrote: Im a "what if" type of guy so what if in the end im faithful. Ive never cheated on a girl unless my mind thinking of other girls is cheating. The past month while having sex with my girlfriend i thought of my best friend.
Then you aren't in love with her.
It's as simple as that. If you think of your "best friend" while having sex, you aren't in love with your girlfriend.
That's a fact.
RE: Two Loves - Fallen - 01-02-2014
Make up your mind because you can only have one. I would go with your best friend.
RE: Two Loves - Capture - 01-02-2014
(01-02-2014, 07:22 AM)Zurchi Wrote: Then you aren't in love with her.My definition of love is "caring deeply for someone, having their best interest in mind, doing everything you can to make them happy, and keep them safe." It's only recently i have been having these thoughts.
It's as simple as that. If you think of your "best friend" while having sex, you aren't in love with your girlfriend.
That's a fact.
(01-02-2014, 07:26 AM)Fallen Wrote: Make up your mind because you can only have one. I would go with your best friend.My best friend is hotter but i dont think we would last, we think the same and almost the same in every way. I love to argue as does she. That not a perfect match. My girlfriend is loving caring and does everything i ask. I think i like what i cant have.
RE: Two Loves - Zurchi - 01-02-2014
(01-02-2014, 07:26 AM)Capture Wrote: My definition of love is "caring deeply for someone, having their best interest in mind, doing everything you can to make them happy, and keep them safe." It's only recently i have been having these thoughts.
My best friend is hotter but i dont think we would last, we think the same and almost the same in every way. I love to argue as does she. That not a perfect match. My girlfriend is loving caring and does everything i ask. I think i like what i cant have.
Two and a half years is a long time for everything to go down horribly.
If you really love this girl, and are in love with her, stay with her.
RE: Two Loves - Capture - 01-02-2014
(01-02-2014, 07:37 AM)Zurchi Wrote: Two and a half years is a long time for everything to go down horribly.Thanks man, sometimes the wrong head is thinking and I have no one i can get good advice from that pertains to a girlfriend.
If you really love this girl, and are in love with her, stay with her.
RE: Two Loves - Zurchi - 01-02-2014
(01-02-2014, 07:44 AM)Capture Wrote: Thanks man, sometimes the wrong head is clear and have no one i can get good advice from that pertains to a girlfriend.
It honestly just sounds like you're thinking with your penis. And you need to just stop, take a step back. Maybe cut off a little bit from your best friend. Find out, who in the end will be the one worth keeping and it sounds like your girlfriend.
RE: Two Loves - wander_n_wonder - 01-03-2014
If you think you cannot be loyal to your girlfriend and might end up cheating with your bestfriend, it's better to just be honest and end your relationship with your girlfriend. It will be fair to both of you if you do that. There's no point hurting two people at the same time.
However, do not expect too much with your bestfriend. You might be in love with her but that does not guarantee that she feels the same way for you.