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Not the honeymoon phase I envisioned - ManakaJunpei - 09-11-2021
Got together with my Girlfriend in the last 3 days
In this time we've dealt with her becoming homeless and 48 hours ago her sister got put into the hospital for spores/covid/blood cloths in her entire body
had multiple surgeries since and is unsaveable, they're about to send her off to the other world.
Idk it's a lot to think about and to just get introduced to in this short of time, I'm most concerned about the son of the sister that 's about to die I hope he gets a proper parental figure (my gf's mom) for a while at least so that we don't have to deal with that full time either but I fear the worst, if that happens fast I'll have to seriously consider my priorities in life. I'm in no way shape or form capable of raising someone yet
No reason for me to write this here I suppose I just wanted to vent.
RE: Not the honeymoon phase I envisioned - mothered - 09-12-2021
Quote:Got together with my Girlfriend in the last 3 daysI'm sorry to hear that.
In this time we've dealt with her becoming homeless and 48 hours ago her sister got put into the hospital for spores/covid/blood cloths in her entire body
had multiple surgeries since and is unsaveable, they're about to send her off to the other world.
Quote:I'm most concerned about the son of the sister that 's about to die I hope he gets a proper parental figure (my gf's mom) for a while at least so that we don't have to deal with that full time either but I fear the worst, if that happens fast I'll have to seriously consider my priorities in life. I'm in no way shape or form capable of raising someone yetRemove the negatives and focus on what you "can do", as opposed to what you can't.
You'll find that It will give you direction on where you currently stand, and where you're likely to head with future events and commitments.
RE: Not the honeymoon phase I envisioned - Oni - 09-12-2021
Sorry to hear, wishing you the best. I'm sure you will leave a positive impact, regardless of how limited your involvement is.
RE: Not the honeymoon phase I envisioned - Spooky - 09-16-2021
I pray your loved ones are healed and healthy again. Stay attentive to everything they need and make sure to be there for them as much as possible. Hopefully, this is temporary and you will all be together soon enough.