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RE: How to be friends with Introverts - Madderc - 04-15-2013
This is neat because I actually have a few introvert friends
One of them was from my class like in the 7th grade, but I only got to hear her voice (almost silent) after talking to her after 3 years or so and gaining her trust and all and being with her once xD
Great guide though :3
RE: How to be friends with Introverts - RogueCoder - 05-20-2013
Extrovertedness: 35%
The Introvert-Extrovert Test
says that I'm Somewhat Introverted
What does it mean?
This test points to the fact that you tend to be more introverted than extroverted. This would point to the fact that you like taking time for yourself, but do know how to have fun. Your friends are very close, and you consider most other people your peers.
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That's dead on.. I was in a wedding this weekend, and I spent the first 3 hours doing nothing but observing attitudes, who talked about what and who was most likely to be completely wasted early.. After that I contacted the ones that had been talking about interesting topics like music
Considering I'm almost bold I kind of felt like the observers in Fringe
RE: How to be friends with Introverts - Exaco - 06-11-2013
Hello guys, i'm an big introvert and the main difference in my case is that i don't like to speak about senseless or unknown for me things ( if someone will talk about stuff that i like or im doing that then i can talk all day all night about it
) and i do not enjoy senseless shit like walk into city for a whole day without any reason, it's healthy but it's big waste of time too and i rather go to GYM instead of city, i better stay at home and do my stuff ( learn hacking, gaming, moviemaking and all other hobbies ). In social case i'm friendly, very understanding others, trusted..If some guy from work/class or even stranger starts talking with me i would talk like everybody else for example:
Guy/Girl: hey
Me: hey
Guy/Girl: how are you ?
Me: fine, you?
Guy/Girl: how your work is going on ?
Me: some stuff left to do and i'm ready to go.
.....
Maybe i'm more lifestyle introvert than social, but anyway some ppl calls me silent one. ( mostly those who can't stop talking ).
Also i'm not one of the "loosers" or "nerds", for example in school i was not the most fame person, but somewhere in middle.
Really i didn't seen bigger introvert than me in my life except of girls.
Edit: i do not like say good things about myself, but it's only for this topic purposes
RE: How to be friends with Introverts - Firem1nded - 06-27-2013
I am an Introvert.
And even tho I do not talk much with strangers, noone shound ask me about higher Physics, like the Many-Worlds Theory.
Because if someone does I dont stop talking that easyly ^^
Introverts are mostly observers rather than participants (wich can lead to a couple of things, Psycology is awesome ^^), but they love talking about stuff they know and like. Once you know what an introvert likes to talk about (and not ask the same questions over and over) you can easyly be a friend with one.
Quote: But when you befriend him/her finally, you'll have gained an ally for a lifetimeWell my best female friend is friended with me since 10 years and my longest friendship survived years now.
I like this post very much, thank you ^^
(06-11-2013, 11:46 AM)Exaco Wrote: Hello guys, i'm an big introvert and the main difference in my case is that i don't like to speak about senseless or unknown for me things ( if someone will talk about stuff that i like or im doing that then i can talk all day all night about it
If some guy from work/class or even stranger starts talking with me i would talk like everybody else for example:
Guy/Girl: hey
Me: hey
Guy/Girl: how are you ?
Me: fine, you?
Guy/Girl: how your work is going on ?
Me: some stuff left to do and i'm ready to go.
.....
Maybe i'm more lifestyle introvert than social, but anyway some ppl calls me silent one. ( mostly those who can't stop talking ).
Also i'm not one of the "loosers" or "nerds", for example in school i was not the most fame person, but somewhere in middle.
Really i didn't seen bigger introvert than me in my life except of girls.
Edit: i do not like say good things about myself, but it's only for this topic purposes
I know what you mean. Like one day two girls walked towards me in a bar and started talking to me (they were kinda pretty actually) but they were just talking about the usual stuff ("crappy weather today right?" "are you here often?" "do you like the music here?") and i just didnt care.
This is maby because introverts are usually smarter than extroverts (no offense) since they focus more on learning stuff and thus we usually do not care much for (pointless) smalltalk.