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RE: Introverts - Blink - 07-17-2017
(07-16-2017, 04:53 PM)mothered Wrote: I "must" have the majority of the day (If not all when not working), on my own.
There's no chance I spend most of my day socializing.
@CC.py mothered just proved my point in the casual debate we had a few months ago.
RE: Introverts - Shinoa - 07-17-2017
(07-17-2017, 03:47 AM)Ender Wrote: @CC.py mothered just proved my point in the casual debate we had a few months ago.Not really
You were trying to tell me that you need no socializing at all, and despite many people (including myself) not enjoying and doing it the most, it's necessary to some extent if you want to keep your sanity
(07-17-2017, 03:44 AM)Ender Wrote: Some people don't know a lot of the stuff that I know, but still seem intellectual. I can talk to those people for a while.Also why do I feel like this is directed at me
RE: Introverts - Blink - 07-17-2017
(07-17-2017, 04:55 AM)CC.py Wrote:(07-17-2017, 03:47 AM)Ender Wrote: @CC.py mothered just proved my point in the casual debate we had a few months ago.Not really
You were trying to tell me that you need no socializing at all, and despite many people (including myself) not enjoying and doing it the most, it's necessary to some extent if you want to keep your sanity
(07-17-2017, 03:44 AM)Ender Wrote: Some people don't know a lot of the stuff that I know, but still seem intellectual. I can talk to those people for a while.Also why do I feel like this is directed at me
1. I was saying that a large amount is unnecessary.
2. Not specifically. It was mainly directed at people who aren't into STEM (yet), but still are intellectual.
RE: Introverts - Shinoa - 07-17-2017
(07-17-2017, 05:36 AM)Ender Wrote: 1. I was saying that a large amount is unnecessary.1. Unless you want to dig up months old debates we probably shouldn't go any further into this.
2. Not specifically. It was mainly directed at people who aren't into STEM (yet), but still are intellectual.
2. Kms
RE: Introverts - Blink - 07-17-2017
(07-17-2017, 06:06 AM)CC.py Wrote:(07-17-2017, 05:36 AM)Ender Wrote: 1. I was saying that a large amount is unnecessary.1. Unless you want to dig up months old debates we probably shouldn't go any further into this.
2. Not specifically. It was mainly directed at people who aren't into STEM (yet), but still are intellectual.
2. Kms
1. Sure, why not?
RE: Introverts - mothered - 07-17-2017
(07-17-2017, 04:55 AM)CC.py Wrote: and despite many people (including myself) not enjoying and doing it the most, it's necessary to some extent if you want to keep your sanity
Although I hardly put It In practice (socializing), I have to agree with this comment.
For example, I was just out and purchased 4 new lappies (my lappies die a lot quicker than the above average user due to hammering them all day), one of which was this: http://www.mediamarkt.nl/nl/product/_acer-predator-g9-593-71vq-1484232.html?channable=e21783.MTQ4NDIzMg&rbtc=%7C%7C%7C%7Cp%7C%7C&gclid=CJSRta7Gj9UCFfQK0wodhsQA1Q&gclsrc=aw.ds&dclid=CLf0-a_Gj9UCFZaNGwodmrkKXQ
It felt really good to go out and look forward to the purchase(s) and Interact with staff In the computational field. It broke the monotony of my computing at home. However, I was extremely eager to get back Into my tasks- so much that I was In a mad rush to get home with withdrawal-like symptoms.
RE: Introverts - Asura - 07-17-2017
In college, I used to have one hell of a social anxiety. I couldn't be in a crowd or a classroom full of students. Most of my college courses were either online or one-on-one. The time I had to be in a class full of students was when there wasn't any instructors available for one-on-one and online which happened a few times throughout enrollment.
Now, I've gotten better with it. I'm just more quieter and speak when spoken to. I do best alone however
RE: Introverts - nonsleep1 - 07-17-2017
Yes, I like alone time a lot. But for me to get it is very easy. At work have my own place, at home no one disturb me anyway. And most of my friend got their husbands/wives, so they have their own people to hang out.
BTW. Have you problem to get gf? Outside, Tinder... none of them works. Don't know what to talk to them. I always overthink, overanalyze something. That was a problem of last breakup. Have you guys same problem?
RE: Introverts - Oni - 07-17-2017
(07-17-2017, 08:45 AM)nonsleep1 Wrote: Yes, I like alone time a lot. But for me to get it is very easy. At work have my own place, at home no one disturb me anyway. And most of my friend got their husbands/wives, so they have their own people to hang out.
BTW. Have you problem to get gf? Outside, Tinder... none of them works. Don't know what to talk to them. I always overthink, overanalyze something. That was a problem of last breakup. Have you guys same problem?
I met @Jiggly on Sinisterly. She's since moved here and we've been dating 4 years. You don't always have to look for love to find it.
RE: Introverts - mothered - 07-17-2017
(07-17-2017, 08:45 AM)nonsleep1 Wrote: Have you problem to get gf? Outside, Tinder... none of them works. Don't know what to talk to them. I always overthink, overanalyze something. That was a problem of last breakup. Have you guys same problem?
When you try to make something work that's really not there to begin with, that's when Issues may come up. As such, you begin to manifest all sorts of emotions that can work against you.
If a relationship/bond between couples Is meant to be, It'll take It's course with very little effort on both parts. "Keeping" the relationship In a healthy state requires effort- and communication Is a key factor.