(05-05-2016, 07:36 PM)Silence Wrote: Here's the backstory
Okay, so my two friends (both gaming pals) got together a few months back. So he has been saying he's about 20-21, we all believe him since it kind of fits the fact that he works and stuff. They date, she's 20, they do stuff (this is all online. Nothing happened in person). She started getting worried about stuff, since he mentioned his friends cheated on their girlfriends and he was the 'lookout' at a party, then asked for his number since she was debating deleting kik cause of other things. He didn't want to give it to her, until she had to practically guilt it out of him. Note they were in a relationship for months at this point.

Skip to this month
So, they both take a break as things got stressful. He told her that his name was changed due to him being adopted and not having any real family. So she got curious, searched his real name and found his Facebook. He told her that he was at a wedding, turns out that a school in his local area was having prom that night. There's a picture of him and two friends, all having prom dates. She got heartbroken as this happened while they were dating. She searched his phone number, turns out it was owned by someone with the same last name as his real name, which is odd since he doesn't have family. She also started to piece other things that she didn't pay much heed to. So, he lied about his age, he's only in high school. She could get into legal trouble with this if he decides to ever try to blackmail her or something with all the stuff they did.


I am absolutely pissed and disappointed in this guy, as I thought of him as a brother. Turns out, he's been lying about so much. So, what do you guys think about people lying in a relationship.

(05-05-2016, 07:42 PM)Oni Wrote: I mean, she should have been skeptical in the first place.


Why being gullible is dangerous/bad. @Jiggly and I met online and we've been dating almost 3 years (and she's moving here in a few months). I would have questioned any of the aforementioned oddities.

(05-05-2016, 10:32 PM)Inori Wrote: Online dating is very hit or miss. Sometimes someone has the classic, almost internet troll mentality of "it's online. I can lie about anything and get away with it." It can hurt, obviously, but it's also a practical lesson on healthy amounts of skepticism.

This said, sometimes it turns out pretty well.

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Speaking of good online relationships, that's pretty cool. Gratz on nearly 3, you dorks

(05-08-2016, 01:50 AM)Rick Wrote: What you don't know can't hurt ya

(05-08-2016, 02:03 AM)Silence Wrote: You're kidding me right?
That's the most aggravating mindset.

(05-08-2016, 02:07 AM)Rick Wrote: Do you tell your partner absolutely everything?

(05-08-2016, 02:13 AM)Silence Wrote: Actually, yeah. I do.

(05-08-2016, 02:17 AM)Rick Wrote: So you're a lil' whipped bitch?

(05-08-2016, 04:32 AM)Silence Wrote: Lol no. I'm actually the one that uses the whip.
I just don't care for secrets between us. What's the point in having them? It'll come to light eventually, whether you want it to or not.

And also, you're such an immature little piece of shit, you know that?