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RE: How to Get Girls [SSS] - bluedog.tar.gz - 07-14-2014
That moment when a girl replies :troll:
Topic related: Just lift.
RE: How to Get Girls [SSS] - zomgwtfbbq - 07-14-2014
(07-14-2014, 11:53 AM)Deque Wrote: Cause drama, wtf?Lol I was just kidding, Deque, don't take it so serious.
(07-13-2014, 08:26 AM)The 7th Sage Wrote: This disgusts me.
^this
(07-13-2014, 07:50 PM)zomgwtfbbq Wrote: The thing is that women themselves don't know what they want. :troll:
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And disgusting? Seriously? Then most men are disgusting, a normal man with a normal libido thinks about having sex with pretty girls, having sex with multiple girls etc. Even funnier are those white knights on the internet. At night it's them who look for the most disgusting pr0n sites on the web.
So no this isn't disgusting, selling these courses is like hooking into the fantasy of lots of men who simply are too beta to talk to a girl. There's a market for everything.
RE: How to Get Girls [SSS] - Netero_mybb_import16981 - 07-14-2014
Copyright by :bluedog: : Solution to every problem just lift
There are many ways to get a girl or get a boy that depends on you and what she/he is like. Personal views
Well @Deque the "girls don't know what they want" is kinda true, I had a friend which I wanted to be closer to
we hanged around a lot, chatted ,helped her in lessons ...etc but in summer I was busy with my own things that
made me have little almost no time for her, I didn't talk to her for 2 months I think then one day I send a
message saying Hi... we talked for a while, then she became more talkative and personal ... etc one day after a
week from talking she said I Love You & I missed you. (I told her I liked/loved her before
)And there are all ways to get into a relationship, but they depend on you. Personally I analyze things a lot,
I become someone they hate, then a friend, then a closer friend (BFF) then if I like the things about her I
become BF. You might ask why these steps ?! well to me or it's just my society I'm not really sure, but I noticed
this in my country, anyways back to the point. When a girl hates you she might say things about you this will
give you an insight of her characters, when you try and become her friend she will tell you some little stuff
then when you are there for her, talk to her about your problems, ask for her ideas on some things, open up
a little about things in daily life maybe a problem with a friend or family ...etc they will open a little
they will tell you a little more (this when you are her best friend). In the last three steps
first step she might say hateful words against you. (maybe)
//Note on first point: She might say hateful words towards you because she likes you and
//she can't tell the truth about her feelings towards you because she is afraid of her
//friends talking and saying how can you love that.
second step she will trust you and tell you little.
third step she will open herself more because she trust you more than anyone else.
You will learn why is she talking the way she is/ why she thought of you as a bad person. And what life
events made her into who she is not.
There is a saying that girls are attracted to jerks, it is true in a way. I mean look into your highschool life
,this phenomena occurs in western countries more, you see girls attracted to football players, bullies ...etc
This isn't in their hands, girls biology tells them to be with someone who can provide for them and protect them.
for that reason they like the big muscled jerk guy or good looking fella who is not so good, and don't care for
you who are nice
being nice doesn't get you any where. I'm not saying become and As***le no for f***s sake no,just become someone who shines among his comrades people want to talk to you and be with you ...etc Now if you
compare yourself to the bullies and stuff you are in a lower level than them because you cannot even protect/
defend/provide/take care for yourself then why would a girl would want you ?!
And these CD or I don't know programs just make you aware of somethings, the most important thing of all which
is hard to master is getting used to rejection. You have to throw yourself into the river of rejection because
you will learn a lot
and if someone doesn't like you so what don't be sad if you believe in yourself then just forget about her and say she didn't know my value or how much I'm good.
And regarding just be yourself
That is total bull**** there are many reasons first since you are a fellow hacker in this community you are lazy for some real life activities, you are just thinking of yourself what
you want and what is best for you, I can name a few more things ,but I think you get the idea.
So when you say just be yourself I don't believe that, I don't say go and lie and do idiotic shits no for
f***s sake no
I'm saying improve yourself there are many areas which one can improve himself/herselfto a better person
calling mom and dad once a week is considered a great improvement because I know almosteveryone in this age doesn't really care about family
so try to improve yourself and that person is going to be the next you. It still is you but a better version
one with less errors.
RE: How to Get Girls [SSS] - Adayn - 07-14-2014
I just saw there is also a link, what is it about, and I don't know if I press those download buttons what happens and if he sells them for free or not, but I had a look at his site and I can tell you that his acting skills are far better than his hypnotizing ones and that's what gets him to be popular.
RE: How to Get Girls [SSS] - Deque - 07-22-2014
(07-14-2014, 12:55 PM)zomgwtfbbq Wrote:(07-14-2014, 11:53 AM)Deque Wrote: Cause drama, wtf?Lol I was just kidding, Deque, don't take it so serious.
(07-13-2014, 08:26 AM)The 7th Sage Wrote: This disgusts me.
^this
(07-13-2014, 07:50 PM)zomgwtfbbq Wrote: The thing is that women themselves don't know what they want. :troll:
My GIF responses are usually not serious.
(07-13-2014, 07:50 PM)zomgwtfbbq Wrote: And disgusting? Seriously? Then most men are disgusting, a normal man with a normal libido thinks about having sex with pretty girls, having sex with multiple girls etc. Even funnier are those white knights on the internet. At night it's them who look for the most disgusting pr0n sites on the web.
So no this isn't disgusting, selling these courses is like hooking into the fantasy of lots of men who simply are too beta to talk to a girl. There's a market for everything.
Maybe disgust is not the best word for it. And it is not that men want sex with (several) beautiful women what I disliked. Women are no "better" when it comes to sex fantasies.
I don't like the way how these step-by-step tutorials make men believe that every woman is alike and can be "persuaded" by abiding some simple rules. This is just not the way it works and it is objectifying.
I don't believe in any kind of "all women/girls like foobar" and "this is how you can manipulate every woman to love/like you". I find this mindset and the spread of it dangerous.
I find it even more alarming how many men AND women believe in shit like this. There are numerous threads about the same topic "How to get girls with foo steps", some even (supposedly) made by women who claim to be experts on this matter, and lots of people believing and thanking them. No one even questions the stereotypes and coloring everyone with the same brush. The world is not that easy as the tutorials makes people believe it is, nor do these steps give anyone that much power. I know one thing for sure: If my husband ever had followed any of these tutorials, he wouldn't be my husband.
(07-14-2014, 01:18 PM)Netero Wrote: Well @Deque the "girls don't know what they want" is kinda true, I had a friend which I wanted to be closer to
we hanged around a lot, chatted ,helped her in lessons ...etc but in summer I was busy with my own things that
made me have little almost no time for her, I didn't talk to her for 2 months I think then one day I send a
message saying Hi... we talked for a while, then she became more talkative and personal ... etc one day after a
week from talking she said I Love You & I missed you. (I told her I liked/loved her before
I don't understand how this tells anything about women in general. It is a single event and the description sounds more like you didn't know what you wanted.
A lot of men don't know what they want either and I don't see a reason to attribute this only to women.
RE: How to Get Girls [SSS] - Netero_mybb_import16981 - 07-22-2014
@Deque
I really don't remember this post that well :3 but I said it from experience it's not something especial only for women.
And I don't want you to think of me as sexiest
not based on a post that I made Well it's a psychological state, most of the people don't know what they really want Only when they loose it they come to understand the fact that they wanted it. I do find this as a fact not only for women ,but for men also.
Men & Women don't appreciate the presence of some opposite sex friends until they are lost. Main reason is
because we live our life in routine we do almost everything we did the day before, we wake up drink coffee or eat
breakfast , go to school or work , eat lunch ...etc and in the end of the day we come home and we sleep. This
makes us not being able to judge on what we really want, there are guys who spend their lifetime doing a job that
they don't like and do things they don't love this will blur their judgment.
In my case I talked about a girl that I liked, I was always there for her, even spend some days talking for 5 hours listening to her problems and trying to help her when she needed. I did know what I want I wanted her as my lover.
But for love or relationship to exist it must be a two way thing. I must know it and she must know it also,
now when I found out that she isn't into me as a lover , I moved away from her made some
distance I don't want to be someone's bff and be there for them when I have a feeling and they don't share me that
feeling, it will just make me feel not good. So and I'm glad I was busy for that two month period I couldn't even
open facebook and message her. And when I did and said Hi she was @.@ over joyed and excited ...etc after some while
when my love for her was about to decrease she said I love you and that made my love come back.
After a while I asked mom what do you like in a man, she said I would love it if he was always there for me, and I
analyzed and thought about my case and what my mom would love, and I came to the conclusion that I did almost every
thing she said I would love if a man have this and that. So I was interested in finding the answer to this
when in theory women / men love it if someone is there for them always and they hate it in practical they say
she/he is pushing too hard. I came across a book called Art of Seduction and in it I found my answer the author
talks about key things to make the person you want to be in your charm, and I found that for a love relationship
to exist you mustn't always be for the opposite sex because they don't see it. You must be there for them
and not be there for them in some cases.
There are many things which is used by men to seduce women if you tell them they will get shocked and say it's not like
that women aren't like that. Same applies for men also , if a woman tells us how she seduce us we will be shocked.
Sorry if I offended you or any female it's just something that I found to be true.
In a discussion with a friend we talked about what humans want. We came to the conclusion that we seek what we don't have
Men don't have emotion men don't have love, a woman gives them love and fills their emptiness.
Women are more powerful in emotional side so they seek something else, so when it comes to relationship
the best relationship is those who fills the gaps inside us, compatibility between the female and male.
I would love it if you watch the video that I put here.
RE: How to Get Girls [SSS] - Deque - 07-23-2014
(07-22-2014, 10:55 PM)Netero Wrote: @Deque
I really don't remember this post that well :3 but I said it from experience it's not something especial only for women.
And I don't want you to think of me as sexiest
I don't. It takes more than that.
(07-22-2014, 10:55 PM)Netero Wrote: Well it's a psychological state, most of the people don't know what they really want Only when they loose it they come to understand the fact that they wanted it. I do find this as a fact not only for women ,but for men also.
Men & Women don't appreciate the presence of some opposite sex friends until they are lost. Main reason is
because we live our life in routine we do almost everything we did the day before, we wake up drink coffee or eat
breakfast , go to school or work , eat lunch ...etc and in the end of the day we come home and we sleep. This
makes us not being able to judge on what we really want, there are guys who spend their lifetime doing a job that
they don't like and do things they don't love this will blur their judgment.
I agree.
Psychological techniques are not gender specific. I guess this is what bugs me most about these tutorials. They make it seem that this is a gender specific thing, while studies have shown that men and women are phychologically not different (I read about them in "Psychologie Heute", I would have to look them up again).
(07-22-2014, 10:55 PM)Netero Wrote: In my case I talked about a girl that I liked, I was always there for her, even spend some days talking for 5 hours listening to her problems and trying to help her when she needed. I did know what I want I wanted her as my lover.
But for love or relationship to exist it must be a two way thing. I must know it and she must know it also,
now when I found out that she isn't into me as a lover , I moved away from her made some
distance I don't want to be someone's bff and be there for them when I have a feeling and they don't share me that
feeling, it will just make me feel not good. So and I'm glad I was busy for that two month period I couldn't even
open facebook and message her. And when I did and said Hi she was @.@ over joyed and excited ...etc after some while
when my love for her was about to decrease she said I love you and that made my love come back.
After a while I asked mom what do you like in a man, she said I would love it if he was always there for me, and I
analyzed and thought about my case and what my mom would love, and I came to the conclusion that I did almost every
thing she said I would love if a man have this and that. So I was interested in finding the answer to this
when in theory women / men love it if someone is there for them always and they hate it in practical they say
she/he is pushing too hard. I came across a book called Art of Seduction and in it I found my answer the author
talks about key things to make the person you want to be in your charm, and I found that for a love relationship
to exist you mustn't always be for the opposite sex because they don't see it. You must be there for them
and not be there for them in some cases.
I guess I understand now what you wanted to say. It is still no example for "not knowing what to want" imho, but one for a seduction technique.
I watched the video as well.
(07-22-2014, 10:55 PM)Netero Wrote: Same applies for men also
Exactly.
(07-22-2014, 10:55 PM)Netero Wrote: Women are more powerful in emotional side
Why do you think that?
I still try to analyse what I dislike about these tutorials. I guess it is less the techniques themselves. It is true that all of us are wired in a certain way, that makes us exploitable, psychologically. "The predictably irrational" and "Milgram Experiment" are good books about that. So I think I should rephrase my previous statements to me disliking the way women are stereotyped and displayed in most of these tutorials.
I heard some of the tracks from the first post. It is sentences like these (very first track):
"I will teach you how to get inside those pretty little heads"
We are pretty and little - stereotypes, expected role. No, I don't want to fit into being pretty and little. I want to be accepted and respected because of skill and things I achieved, not because of beauty, for which I didn't do any work for (some women put a lot of work into beauty, but I don't want to; beauty is not lasting, nor something I see as valueable).
I read often in tutorials that making compliments towards beauty and similar works. Maybe it does for a certain kind of women, but I get alarmed, being immediatly suspicious about the motivation behind it. It is not what I want to hear. That's one example where I think my husband and I wouldn't have got a good connection if he had complimented by beauty.
I also read "women like drama, so create drama" in another tutorial of this forum. I don't see any indication, why this would be true.
Or "women like to shop, so go shopping with her" and "Buy her flowers" and "Buy here jewellery, all women like jewellery" and "Be romantic!".
Guess what, I know women who don't like shopping, flowers, jewellery or romantic stuff at all, me included. And if anyone gets the idea to make a sea of candle lights in the moonshine, I would probably leave as soon as I can.
"Be a gentleman, open the door for her, help her to get into her jacket!"
No thanks, I am fully capable of getting my jacket myself. You can open the door if I can do that for you as well on occasion. If you don't then don't.
Yes, there are women who like this, but making the impression that it works for everyone is wrong.
So yeah, it is stuff like this that I dislike.
RE: How to Get Girls [SSS] - katka18 - 07-23-2014
I was dating a guy who followed these "tutorials" it was soooo awful. He was never himself. I saw how he was acting... omg
He was normal only when he got drunk because he completely forgot about "tutorials". It was my nightmare being with him.
Im glad that my boyfriend now is also my best friend. So we know each other and Im sure he doesnt act anything.
Guys, you should make girl like you because of YOU not because of the crappy articles..
RE: How to Get Girls [SSS] - Netero_mybb_import16981 - 07-23-2014
Things which are said here are for both gender
& some things are for specific people.@katka18 well to me if someone is himself he will be shut down many times. & to me this is because those men are staying in
one place I mean they don't go forward into the next level or as I call get better. All of us have things which we don't want to have we feel it is bad and we still do it , example smoking...etc (It depends on you if you think they are bad
or not personally I find them not good). I have a friend who used to smoke 1 packet of cigarette everyday, he went on a 10
day vacation to another country when he came back he quit smoking if he smoked it would be 1 cigarette a week.
Now his smoker friends (Boys) wanted to be him they wanted to have his resolve, his friends (girls) wanted to be with him
this when that boy wasn't loved that much, but since he moved a step further many loved his presence.
What I want to say being "yourself" always is not such a good thing, he was a smoker and people didn't hang out with him
not as they do now, girls didn't talk to him as much as they do now...etc
So being yourself isn't always that good I don't mean be a fake and get excited for many things, no I don't mean that
I mean go and be better, in some ways it is you and in many ways it is not.
There is a book called No more Mr.Nice guy, this is a book which explains somethings which "some" men feel and say
Like I'm so nice to her I do the dishes for her, change babies clothes then why isn't my wife appreciating me...etc
This book gives some boys an awakening to be better than old themselves.
@Deque Hmmm well I say it's because of the way they are raised. And the reason why you see these general "tactics" on how
to get a girl is (I think) its because most girls are raised the same way, I mean they are given a doll to play with
they are told that they are beautiful & many other things (since I'm not a girl I can't name all of them) and boys take
advantage of that fact that they were raised to be "beautiful" that is why guys complement girls looks & body. Some girls
love it some hate it, depends on the personality and the way they are raised.
I really can't give a definitive answer for that (girls are more emotional why?!) but this is what I believe men lack
something which women have and women lack something which men have together they complete that gap and be happier in a
way.
You can live alone if you want, as a female or a male, but you won't be complete or let's say you will feel a gap if you
stay single. (People might not realize it because of their busy days, but once they have some free time to think
they would love to have someone waiting/being there for them at home).
That isn't sexiest & I just find it to be true, I don't want women to be like men, I want women to be women. I don't want
them to ignore somethings about themselves & try to become like men. Women right activist/organization (some ideas) try to
achieve that, I agree there shouldn't be some boundaries between the two genders, but personally I don't want them to try
to become men, they view men as something great and in fact we aren't.
(Why I said these organizations try for women to be like men is I have spoken to UN Women's right in my country
she was a lovely spanish lady ,but I found some things lacking in our talk)
I don't want to go into more details about women right organizations
I want to stick to the point & for now My point isI don't want women to be men
they are greater in their way.
RE: How to Get Girls [SSS] - katka18 - 07-23-2014
@"Netero" it depends on the personality. Of course you can not be in friendship with the whole world and some people are not sociable enough..
I just wanted to say that if you meet a person you like, you shouldnt be pretending anything. Because your boyfriend/girlfriend should know the real you. If you cover yourself with the knowledge from the internet, then I wouldnt call it a relationship... Thats what I wanted to say