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it seems like they use DHL to shipping across the world, so will fake signature

Perfect to DNA It.

telling them to drop it off at my front door, or lobby will work the best?

If "you" Instruct to leave the package at a given location, you'll be responsible for the lost shipment.

I've seen people succeeding with fake signing

Be sure the name on the fake signature Is somewhat legible so when It's cross-checked, It will not be associated to yours, hence you did not sign the delivery.

thank you so much for helping me!
so if my name is Jay, then I should somewhat sign it similar to jay am I right?

If your name is Jay, sign it as Peter or a different name entirely.

It is possibly worth investigating who their returns are, e.g. UPS or DHL as they do state its collected from you but without specifying what carrier. If its just one or two items then I'd be tempted to try the returns method where the items are lost, damaged etc.