[Jacob]

DO you have COMPATIBLE wireless usually laptop chip is not working!
I am sure
http://www.aircrack-ng.org/doku.php?id=compatible_cards

Also from my experiment it only shows 1/3 of connections (i have 20 in my apt. but it shows only 8)

yes its compatible 100% and yes i can find the connection im looking for.

[deathknight]

Would have been better if you posted a real shot.. or at least edited it a bit clearly.

I may be wrong on understanding but from what I have understood, you see a the ESSID of the network as JDSAIRMAN but under BSSID it shows no BSSID at all. If that is the case then.... then... then... just for finding the BSSID you can use wicd itself, or iwlist scan itself. This thread is a bit old.. maybe you have found the solution.. but still wanted to share my ideas.

[akitta]

i think if i understand you correctley, where the essid is it will have the bssid on the same line
airodump-ng mon0 -
BSSID xx:xx:xx:xx:xx:01 PWR...................ESSID JDSAIRMAN. Then underneath it shows connected clients --

BSSID (not associated) STATION 00:xx:xx:xx:xx:05 PROBES JDSAIRMAN I beleave this is what you mean...?

If you want to -- deauth client to gain 4-way-handshake then open new terminal while airodump-ng is running (and your using -w option to save output). In new Terminal get aireplay-ng ready

aireplay-ng -0 3 -a (copy paste the bssid from airodump-ng) xx:xx:xx:xx:xx:01 -c (now copy paste the client mac from under "STATION") 00:xx:xx:xx:xx:05 mon0. This works for me when i've had the same issue as you've explained.
So your command should look like this ---
aireplay-ng -0 3 -a xx:xx:xx:xx:xx:01 -c 00:xx:xx:xx:xx:05 mon0
hope this helps..!
After re-looking at your screen-shot i don't think this is your problem but as "deathknight" says you would have been better uploading actual screen shot from your computer..!