[Classified]

I've gone from being the quiet guy to the guy that always has something to say. I know a lot of you act like you are confident on here but in your personal life you can't compare. Here are some quick tips that i have come up with which has helped me bolster my self confidence. 

1. Accept Yourself- What this means is recognize your flaws and take action upon it. I can't tell you how many times I've been told I'm not social or even funny enough and what I did was accept it and joke about it. The whole point of interaction with others is to build friendship and gain companionship. No one is going to be "Mr.Perfect" however you can try to be the best with what you have. Here are some things you can do to become more accepting of yourself: take a blank sheet of paper and write up all your flaws, have you friends write up your flaws. After that all your flaws are out in the open. Becoming more accepting will make you realize how stupid it was to hold such grudges against yourself. Now, you must be thinking how exactly will this help me become better at sex or even getting into pants. Well to answer that once you realize all your flaws and how hard you worked on overcoming them more than likely you will start complimenting the females and show more appreciation towards those that dress up etc. 
   

Now this is just from what I encountered. If you have any anecdotes relating to this please share, If you're going to just laugh this off then I guess that's why you're single still.  :hurr:

[Migo]

Too bad nobody took the time to read and reply to your thread. First two words were right on. Accept yourself. I've learned to do this and it changed everything. One thing leads to another, right? This thread is right on man!

[OutOfSight]

I'll try it I guess but can it work with out a friend

[Rin]

I have always been accepting myself for who I am. I most likely would not do the whole write down yours flaws but it sure it interesting.